Do you want attachment-free sex for enjoyment or another reason? If you want it because you feel you should be having no-strings sex, then perhaps it’s not for you.
Do I actually enjoy sex or do you just want to enjoy sex? "While this may seem like a simple question, it's one you need to ask yourself. Do I have to drink to have no-strings sex? "If you can only have sex once you’ve had alcohol, then you may not be as comfortable with no-strings sex as you may have hoped.". "However, if your answer is ‘no’ then maybe you're not ready and it could cause some emotional issues." If you answered 'yes' then you're in the clear emotionally and you can separate the act of sex with a deeper emotional attachment," she says.
Would I care if I had sex with someone and then never heard from them again? "This is especially important if you have someone in mind for no-strings sex. 
Santini suggests you ask ask yourself these questions before booking a date with someone: There are a couple of things you may want to consider before going ahead with no-strings-attached sex itself, though.